Monday, June 27, 2016

There’s Always Room To Be A Better Person – Always

Every day consists of hundreds of tiny commitments. The repeated ones constitute your daily habits, which might seem innocuous. However, the truth is that these commitment are what shape your lifestyle, determine your level of productivity, influence your long-term success and eventually reflect the person you are.


The art of following the right habits appear to be an underrated secret of constant growth and development. In reality, the habits you follow have a compound effect, which allows you to accomplish massive results by doing simple, small steps.

The great thing about this is that you can totally take control over them and develop the habits that appear to have a positive impact on your personal growth, while filtering out those that are not a perfect fit for a person you would like to be.

  1.  Stop Worrying 

The popular idea that a worrier is a thoughtful and conscientious citizen is false. The Egyptians realized this when they included worry among the cardinal sins. Do not confuse thoughtfulness and worry. The thoughtful person plans solutions, but the worrier merely dissolves in his own doubt. If you think straight, you will have less cause for worrying. The worrier not only suffers the same disaster many times, but undermines his health and annoys all others with whom he comes into contact with. There are many things in this world that require thoughtful consideration, but there is really nothing to fear but fear itself.

2.  Stop Trying To Dominate And Possess Your Friends And Relatives

Each of us likes to feel that we are running our own life. The moment we recognize the rights of others to seek life, liberty, and happiness according to their own dreams, hopes, and aspirations, we begin to conserve our own resources. It is very debilitating to give advice which is ignored or rejected, and equally disappointing to attempt to possess and dominate people who immediately resent and combat our dictatorial tendencies. We are hurt when they do not see things our way. If we save advice for ourselves and those who seek it from us, and who are therefore grateful, all concerned will be better.

3. Moderate Ambition

There is a tendency to over look natural and simple blessings while we plunge on toward distant goals. Each individual has certain capacities. If he can recognize his own abilities and work with them, he can attain personal security. If however, he is constantly seeking that which is not reasonably attainable, he can never know happiness or contentment. The wise man observes the disastrous results of uncontrollable ambitions, and chooses moderation. It is not necessary to be famous in order to be happy, nor must one be the leading citizen in the community in order to gratify one’s social instinct. The ambitious usually pay too much for what they get, and are the more miserable after they get it.

4. Do Not Accumulate More Than You Need

There is no real distinction in being the richest man in the graveyard. We are supposed to have outgrown the primitive belief that we should bury a man’s goods with him so that his spirit might enjoy them in the afterworld. Here, again, the middle course is wisest. Let us reserve some of our energy for enjoyment, and not give all of ourselves to the task of accumulation. Many a man who has made a million has not lived to spend it. A rich life can be more practical than a monumental bank account.

5. Learn To Relax

The more tense we become, the more stupidly we are likely to act, and according to the old Buddhists, stupidity is a cardinal sin. Today many so called efficient people are perpetually on the verge of a nervous breakdown. This is not so likely to be due to overwork as to unreasonable driving impulses within themselves. Some say that that they are overtaxing their resources to keep their jobs or to maintain extravagant families. Whether you believe it or not, you are a better producer and a better provider if you do not collapse from psychic exhaustion at some critical moment when you are most in need of good health.

6. Cultivate A Sense Of Humor

As never before, we must brighten and lighten the corners where we are. The more seriously we take ourselves and our responsibilities, the duller we become. It is a saving grace to realize that, although living is a serious matter, we can take it too seriously. Also bear in mind that genuine humor is not bitter cynical or critical. It is the ability to laugh with the world and not at the world. If we must laugh at someone, let it be ourselves. Humor is a spice to living. It adds flavor to work, zest to play, charm to self-improvement, and proves to others that we have a security within ourselves. A sincere, happy laugh, like the joyous rippling of children’s laughter, relieves tension and restores good nature. It also makes friends and inspires confidence.

7. Find a Reason for Your Own Existence

Unless you believe in something larger than yourself, have some purpose more vital than accumulation or advancement in business or society, you are only existing, not living. A simple patter is to realize that the laws of Nature that put you here seem to be primarily concerned with growth. You are a success to the degree that you grow, and you grow to the degree that you become a wiser, more useful, and more secure person. In other words, we live to learn, and by this very process, we learn to live. Broaden your horizon, develop an interest in all that is fine, beautiful, and purposeful. Great internal good comes from the love for music, art, great literature, broad philosophy, and simple faith. Strengthen the inside of you nature, and the outside will be better.

8. Never Intentionally Harm Any Other Person.

Never by word or deed return evil for good, or evil for evil. Weed negative and destructive thoughts and emotions our of your personality, or they will ultimately contribute to your misery. As we look around us, we see the tragic results of individuals and nations that harbor grudges or nurse the instincts for revenge. Our critical attitudes and our long memories of evils that others have caused only reduce our present efficiency and endanger health and vitality. Even selfish men realize that he cannot afford to keep a grudge, and the unselfish simply will not permit grudges to accumulate because they know better and they believe better.


9. Beware Of Anger

When ill-temper controls us, we are no longer able to control ourselves. In a moment of anger, we may create a situation which will require years to remedy. Why should we spend our time trying to recover from our own mistakes? If we disapprove, let us state our case simply and quietly, and remember that we should never try to correct another when we have already committed a fault as great as his. A quick temper is a serious handicap in business or in the home. It is useless to say that we cannot control anger. This is as much as to admit that we have lost the power to control ourselves. If we resent the unkindness of other and collective irritability of this generation, let us make sure that we are not one of the irritating factors.

10. Never Blame Others For Our Own Mistakes

It is hardly necessary. Each of us seems to have an incredible capacity to do things badly and select unwisely. Actually, we are in trouble because we have not made constructive use of the power and abilities which we received as a birthright. Others can hurt us only while our own inner life is too weak to sustain us in the presence of trial or test. Instead of resenting misfortunes, and seeking to excuse our own limitations, we must face the facts. Either we are stronger than the problem and can solve it intelligently, or the problem is stronger than we are, and the only solution is to increase our own strength. Others are not to blame for our unhappiness. Each man must seek his own peace of mind, and as the Arabian Nights so well expressed it, happiness must be earned.

Live and Learn. We All Do.

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Wednesday, June 22, 2016

Where There Is Division There Is Conflict

Live and Learn. We All Do.

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Wednesday, June 15, 2016

An Open World Begins With An Open Mind

Would you dare question who you really are?

You have more in common with the world than you think.

Live and Learn.We All Do.

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Friday, June 3, 2016

I Am Not King – I Can’t Do These Things Just By Myself

The President of the United States should never be regarded as merely a political figurehead.  He or She should be a someone looked up to, respected as the personification of the qualities and virtues of their nation.  They should always strive to be the “glamorous” ideal to millions of young people, and the older ones too, for that matter.  Our youth should be proud to follow their leadership, and feel a certain personal cooperation with him or her in the preservation of the nation.


No other country is so plagued with divergent and warring facts as ours, where viewpoints are as varied as the climate.  Within our boundaries are gathered representatives of nearly every opinion known to the human mind.  We have more races and classes than feudal Eurpose, more castes than Asia, and more dogmas than both, while all the eccentricities that afflict us are aggravated by the pernicious illusion that we are all born free and equal.  America is made up of very opinionated people.

Each citizen feels that the payment of taxes permits him to think and do anything and the common good never enters our consciousness.  While Japan is Japanese, Russia is Russian, and Germany is German, America is only American in one common emotion- the proud sense of its sovereign right of individual initiative.   It follows, therefore that any effort to reform or organize Americans is akin to trying to organize the entire world….

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While democracy permits many of us to speak out of turn, and to speak loudest when we have nothing to say.  It is a forgone conclusion, therefore, that no matter what is recommended or what is necessary for the common good, the moment any move is made to solve a problem, someone (usually utterly selfish or incompetent) rises up in all the dignity of his sovereign right and cries: “I object! It’s unconstitutional.”

If it is unconstitutional to enforce integrity where it is evidently necessary-if it is unconstitutional to enforce ethics upon those who have forgotten the ethical bases of relationships-if it is unconstitutional to prevent a nation from exterminating itself because of utter difference to the common good, then it would seem that proper steps should be taken to revise and reshape the Constitution.

If it is unconstitutional to sacrifice some part of private privilege to common good, it would seem still more unconstitutional to support an interpretation of democracy which denies youth a chance to live useful and constructive lives.

When codes are outgrown or perverted, it is not patriotism but stupidity to offer unthinking allegiance to them.

Of the Constitution Jefferson himself wrote: “The present Constitution is well as a beginning, and may be allowed fair trial, but it is in fact only a steppingstone to something better.

Live and Learn.  We All Do.

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